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Kind and not Weak

Female (48) looking for Male Dover, Delaware, United States

I'm a down to earth, easy going individual. I enjoy traveling, meeting people from different backgrounds. I'm originally from NJ, currently residing in Miami, FL but considering relocating to Delaware early 2019. I retired from the federal government (not military) and started a new career in Hospitality. I appreciate a man in/was in the military so that is why I decided to post on this site. I've lived in Dubai, UAE, Brooklyn, NY and travelled to over a dozen countries. Just ready to get more stable while still having the option to travel occasionally.

I've been told I have a younger spirit. I am optimistic and outgoing once I feel comfortable around a person. We all have a story, I try to look at the positive aspect of situations. Oh, not interested in a man that has no shirt on in his pictures or has words misspelled in his profile. Those two details are telling to me. Best wishes!

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EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageAmerican
Height5' 6" (168 cm)
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Body ArtScarred, Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyHospitality / Travel
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleGuest Services Professional

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Movies, Sports, Reality shows
Favorite movies typesAction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Adult
Music typesRap, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel
Reading selectionNews, Biography, Business, Health, Home & Garden, Humor, Political
Idea of funWhatever I/we want to do at that moment!
HobbiesExercising, TV, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Travel, Volunteering


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeStaying at home, Trying new things, The movies
Always wanted to try(Gotta get to know me first before I reveal that!)


Attend religious servicesOnce a month
Goal in lifeTo be happy for each day! My current goal in life would be: to be in a solid, stable monogamous relationship and purchase my "forever house" and just live happily ever after: :-)

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Money, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerHonesty, trustworthy and a good sense of humor.
On the first dateSince I'm sure I would be nervous to be one-on-one, I would enjoy doing a mutually agreeable activity as we get to know each other.